1)
How does your hair compare?
same exact color (eg dirty blonde, dark brown, ginger red, etc.)
same general color (eg brown, blonde, red, black)
two completely different colors
2)
How similar are your eyes?
same color
different colors
partially the same color
3)
Where do you guys stand in the crowd?
we are both within the same general height range
we have quite different heights
4)
5)
Are your last names of the same nationality?
yes
no
idk
6)
Do your last names share the same prefix (mc-, o'-) or suffix (-er, -son)?
yes
no
both
7)
Do your last names have the same number of syllables?
no
yes
yes, and the vowels are all the same, too!
8)
Do you come from similar heritage?
100%
we have alot of the same nationalities
they're completely different
9)
How similar are your skin tones?
exactly the same, even down to the appearance of freckles (or lack therof)
similar, but not identical
very different
10)
Do you and your significant other tend to move/carry yourselves similarly?
yes
no
idk, i never really noticed
11)
How similar are your facial structures?
we have alot of the same features
we are very different in our faces
12)
Do you both wear the same style of clothing?
yes
no
not really, but our styles tend to overlap somewhat
13)
Do you both listen to the same music?
yes, we have the exact same taste in music
we enjoy generally the same genre(s) and enjoy turning each other on to new music
we listen to different kinds of music, but that's ok, i don't mind
one of us in very eclectic, so it doesn't really matter what the other likes
14)
Do you have the same taste in movies/tv shows?
yeah, our opinions are identical
mostly
nah, it's more of a guy movie vs chick flick thing, but we somehow manage to compromise
15)
If you had to place yourself and your significant other into a high school clique (aka jocks, preps, nerds, etc.), would you both end up in the same one?
yes
no
i have no clue
16)
When it comes to academic knowledge, how do you two compare?
we're both of equal intelligence, and when one of us doesn't understand something, then they go to the other to have it explained to them
one of us is smarter than the other and tends to help the other when he/she doesn't understand something
17)
Do you share religious/spiritual beliefs?
we both belong to the same church/group
we belong to different religions, but that's ok because the general goal is the same
neither of us believe in organized religion, but we enjoy discussing whether or not there is a supreme being, and if there is, what it must be like
one of us does not believe in organized religion and the other does, but it's ok because we're both open-minded
18)
How's your sense of humor?
we share each others sense of humor, sometimes getting each others jokes when no one else does
we have different senses of humor, but we can appreciate each others jokes regardless
19)
Optimism and pessimism...?
more or less identical
we're both pretty much halfway, sitting on either side of the proverbial line, but when one of us feels pessimistic, the other one is always there to cheer him/her up
we're complete opposites in regards to that
20)
Do you feel comfortable in the same general conditions?
always
generally, although one of us is more introverted than the other. luckily, the more outgoing of us is willing to respect that
generally, although one of us is more introverted than the other. unfortunately, the more outgoing of us doesn't understand that you need to be patient and respect that
one of us is very shy while the other is very outgoing
21)
Are you both equally kind?
yes
no, my significant other is always being unnecessarily kind/nasty to strangers and i never know how to talk him/her out of it
22)
Do you two tend to be on the same page?
yes, i can always pick up my significant other's mood and act accordingly
not usually. my significant other's motivation to do things is usually a mystery to me
23)
Can you catch subtle differences in the way that your significant other acts around people that they don't know that well which tell you how he/she feels about the stranger or even makes a small joke at their expense without having them suspect a thing?
yes, i enjoy watching my significant other interact with new people because of this
i can tell generally if my significant other is getting annoyed, although after a while the person that they're talking to will be able to tell as well =P
nope, i never know what my significant other thinks about a person until that person has left
24)
How close were you two when you started dating?
we just met and started dating immidiately
we had been acquaintances for a while now and didn't think of being anything more until recently
we were good friends for at least a year ahead of time
25)
What do the two of you tend to talk about in conversations?
Anything and everything--from casual conversations about our daily lives to deep convos about our feelings to hilarious convos about random ideas that we have
We talk about alot of things, alough sometimes i wonder if he or she would really trust me as much as the could if they were in trouble and needed someone
we talk about our relationship, but not much else. in fact, if we weren't together, i have no idea what we would talk about
26)
You are now finished with the questions that will affect your score. The next couple questions are just to help me with my research. First of all, how long have you two been going out?
less than a month
3 months or less
6-10 months
a year or more
we're married
27)
Why did you two get together?
it was a random hookup that we decided to attempt at the relationship level
we were looking for a relationship and neither of us were taken at the time
we met and thought that the other was good looking
we met and thought that the other was a cool person
we had feelings for a while beforehand
28)
How serious is your relationship now?
We're just having fun
We really like each other and this could be very serious sometime
we are already very serious
we're married
29)
Be completely honest--how far do you plan to or hope to get with this relationship?
I'm only in it because i need someone fun to spend some time with. when someone better comes along it'll be over
neither of us are serious about it, we're just keeping ourselves entertained for a while
i honestly think that something is coming from this relationship...i might be in love
we're married
